Don’t be ‘deceived’ by our PUBLICITY PICTURE!
If you want to do it right or make amends in your relationship or marriage, you NEED to download this here.
Cheers to our beautiful love lives!
Don’t be ‘deceived’ by our PUBLICITY PICTURE!
If you want to do it right or make amends in your relationship or marriage, you NEED to download this here.
Cheers to our beautiful love lives!
Wednesday, May 17th, 2017. 10:50am (13 hours, 10 mins to your birthday)
OPEN LETTER TO MY LOVE!
Words fail me to describe who you are to me, what you mean to me or the kind of woman you are. I met you in Great Ife and I would be forever grateful to God who made our paths cross. What would my life be like without you in it? It’s a rhetoric question because I don’t ever want to know, feel, experience or even imagine the answer to that.
I cannot remember the precise day, month or year we met, but I would assume it was in 2004. You became my best friend in October 2005, agreed to walk life with me April 29th,2007 and made it legal June 25th, 2011.
I have always told you and I mean it when I say it, that after the gift of JESUS, and the FAMILY I was born into, you’re God’s GREATEST gift to me. Thank you for saying YES to me. Thank you for saying I DO at the altar. Thank you for loving me.
Daddy and Mummy named you Titilope Adetola Oladepo. But when I met you and you agreed to become one with me, I named you Didun and Hadassah. THADA, you have brought sweetness into my life. Many times I gaze at my life, from the outside, and wonder why God was so gracious to give me you.
Thank you for bearing Eriifeoluwa, Ewaifeoluwa, and Eniifeoluwa. They are indeed our rewards from God. I feel cheated though as they all, as at now, seem to look so much like you. But we both know you are the finer of us, so,I joyfully concede defeat on that! May they grow to be more beautiful than you are, inside and outside.
Thank you for choosing to marry me, when all I had was THE CALL OF GOD. Thank you for believing in me and the vision enough to say YES when there were ‘more qualified’ suitors. Thank you for seeing beauty in me when many ladies of that time saw little or nothing. THANK YOU Hadassah!
I remember like yesterday the times we ate biscuit and drank water to bed. I remember when I had to wait for you to bring home your food from Health Plus, which you kept to share with your hubby because there was no money at home. I remember when the ministry had to ‘borrow’ from your salary to bless lives and pay for forums. I remember…
Recently, when burglars made us leave our house, I remember watching you carrying little Samuel at your back, holding one of the older two and carrying other things, walking the road with me as I held the other and other belongings. You slept on the floor with me without EVER COMPLAINING for almost two months. How can I say THANK YOU?????
You’ve never questioned my authority as head in our home, even when some decisions boomeranged. You have submitted to me and honoured me in the fear of the Lord. I will live all my life honouring you dear for that and more.
MINE Family has become our family. The days of Dream Center at Ajuwon were pivotal for us. You adopted several teenagers, making sons and daughters of them. Plenty cooking everyday, even when many of them did not appreciate your efforts and a few even threw it at your face. What manner of woman are you! When members of MINE TM around the globe celebrate me, it is you they are actually celebrating!
The God, that I serve continually, BLESS YOU and KEEP YOU for me and the millions of souls tied to you. MINE Teenage Ministry is where it is today because of God, my supportive parents, amazing partners, members and YOU! THANK YOU Titilope.
Should I talk about your meals that keep me salivating and expectant? Should I talk of how devoted you are to my satisfaction in that area I cannot mention because of minors reading this…lol Should I talk about the fact that you are my stylist or that fact that you are my “barber” in lay man terms. You cut my hair with almost precision. What would I do without you!
When God decided to give man, a help, MEET, for him, HE knew what HE was doing. My love, you are THE HELP, MEET FOR Oluwatimilehin Adigun. None else could and would ever come close. Just looking at God’s choice of you is a reminder that GOD IS GOOD!
“I AM SORRY, PLEASE FORGIVE ME!” Those are words you have heard many times. I hope never to have to repeat them but I am certain I will because I am human. Titilope mi, I apologize for EVERY single hurt I have caused you, known or unknown to me. I NEVER INTENDED TO, in words and/or deeds. Again I say, I am sorry! Please forgive me. All you deserve is happiness, and that is what I am committed to giving you as long as you live!
In a few hours, the world would be joining me in celebrating you, a VIRTUOUS WOMAN. I want you to know, before they start, that no one appreciates you more than I do. I appreciate you with everything that makes me me and I LOVE YOU more than I ever thought was possible.
Thank you for being my friend, best friend, sister, nurse, prayer partner, cook, ‘barber’, assistant, partner in ministry, greatest cheerleader, lover, mother to our children, partner in sowing…and more!!!
Eri, Ewa and Eni love you so much. You are the best mother they could have ever wished for. In their growing years, they will tell you so with their own words. IT IS EVIDENT TO ALL. You’re an amazing mum, my dear. Thank you for putting your family first when you quit your job two years ago to be with us. Our lives are MUCH RICHER because of your sacrifice and God is sure pleased with you!
You’re human and not perfect. You’ve hurt me too (not as often as I have hurt you though) but I do not take them to account because LOVE covers all.
We would be six years married next month. I do not know what God has planned ahead in details but I am certain the plans are GOOD and BEAUTIFUL. And I am eternally grateful to Him that He has stamped it that that future would feature me and you FOR LIFE!!! That is SIMPLY AMAZING!
And in the spirit of WORLD VIRGINITY DAY, thank you for being my VIRGIN BRIDE. It has been ‘divine’ learning and experimenting together. We entered our home as amateurs and now we are… (lol)
My topmost prayer to God in recent times, and I know it will top the list until I see Jesus, is “Father, please make me the best husband to Titilope and make our home an example for the church and world to emulate.” And holding on to Mark 11:24, I KNOW I HAVE IT!
I will end my Open Letter here, sweetheart, trusting and relying on God, to help me LIVE OUT even more than I could ever express the LOVE I have for you!
Thank you for being mine.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY in a bit, my look alike!
I love you! I Love you!! I LOve you!!! I LOVe you!!!! I LOVE you!!!!! I LOVE You!!!!!! I LOVE YOu!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU NOW!!!!!!!!! I LOVE YOU ETERNALLY!!!!!!!!!!
GOD BLESS YOU THADA!!!
Yours in breath-taking love,
ADVOCATING SEXUAL PURITY IN 4 NATIONS AND 25 LOCATIONS CONCURRENTLY
World Virginity Day holds Saturday, June 11th 2016.
Below are the locations (in alphabetical order) near you and the people you could reach.
Abia State (Umuahia): Glory (08156058606)
Abuja (FCT): Esther (07032178630)
Akwa-Ibom State (Uyo): Chidinma (07036155469)
Benue State (Makurdi): Chimenem (08062655143)
Cross River State (Calabar): Emeka (08035240662)
Edo State (Benin): Precious (09096430513)
Ekiti State (Ado-Ekiti): Ajoke (08133563756)
Ekiti State (Ido-Ekiti): Pelumi (07036327514)
Enugu State (Enugu): Evans (08132772646)
Kwara State (Ilorin): Bravedave (08108425455)
Lagos State (Ikeja): Lekan (08032446129)
Lagos State (LUTH, Idi-Araba): Ayo (0703984877)
Nasarawa State: Esther (07032178630)
Ogun State (Abeokuta): Nike (08069820645)
Ogun State (Ago-Iwoye): David (08180910806)
Ondo State (Akure): Adeola (08168820971)
Ondo State (Ondo): Victoria (09050889419)
Osun State (Ile-Ife): Seyifunmi: (08143875695)
Oyo State (Ibadan): Dolapo (08164743152)
Oyo State (Ogbomoso): Grace (08033665492)
Plateau State (Jos): David (08175902218)
Rivers State (Port-Harcourt): Chioma (07067306113)
Ghana: Rhoda (+233547903990)
Ukraine: Ndiok (+380631656826)
USA: Tosin (+13199614062)
General Enquiries and Shirt payments: Caleb (08102959248)
Media (joining Publicity campaign): Dabest (07033629543)
CAUSING THE REVOLUTION, ONE DAY AT A TIME!
A few people responded to our call to celebrate and love on TiTiMi Adigun as we celebrate our birthdays this month (Timi May 10th, Titi May 18th). We appreciate you all and we are posting your words here for the world to see, and to be an encouraging reminder for us (TiTiMi) at all times. Thank you so much and GOD BLESS YOU!
Below are the words (Arranged in the order we received them):
Your marriage is indeed something to look up to. I’d say its an example of a perfect marriage and home. Pastor Timi has not only been a blessing to me but also an inspiration. More grace to you both. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE PERFECT COUPLE!
Mary-Jane Ndidi, Lagos
Congratulations to you ma. God bless you for us and God’s oil will continue to be on you. You are an example to us and have really impacted our lives for good. We love you Sis Titi.
I’m so glad I met TiTiMi. Although I haven’t seen Aunt Titi personally, I’m blessed by the advice she gives. Meeting TiTiMi has made me know that we must utilize every gift God has given us. Happy birthday TiTiMi.
One of the things I won’t forget in my life was when I was desperately in search of a job in 2012. I summoned courage to meet Pastor (Mrs.) Titilope Adigun to pray with me as regards getting a job.
The week after, I got three job offers. #Halleluyah
I pray for you both that the anointing of God will increase upon your lives In Jesus Name. Amen
Happy Birthday TiTiMi. God Bless You More.
Im ever grateful to God for encountering TiTiMi. They are part of those gems that made me to be tenacious and persistent in whatever I do; that’s the reason I got the opportunity to be where I am. 50-57 words can’t be enough. I love you sir and ma.
You’ve been a blessing to me in diverse ways starting with me learning new things like catering and also meeting with people (which I never liked) … Congrats TiTiMi!!!
Thank you for choosing to follow Gods PLAN;
Thank you for choosing to pursue Gods PURPOSE,
Indeed, generations have been blessed.
I’m so blessed to know TiTiMi Adigun. I have been greatly increased spiritually, socially and mentally by knowing them. It all dates back to 2010,when I attended the first MINE Forum held at Acme and I met this wonderful couple. My life has been transformed by the love and trust they have in me. Its six years and still counting. They are indeed great people. Their prayers and encouragement inspire me to be a better person for God and for the world at large. I am ever grateful to God for sending TiTiMi Adigun my way; it is enough to know that God loves me. I am thankful to God for their lives and the impact they have made in this generation. God bless MTM, Ark and your family.
Wow! I am short of words to describe how immensely your ministry has been of great value to me and to the young generation at large. Introduced to this ministry in 2012, my life has never remained the same. I have never met you personally, yet you’ve touched my life in so many ways, through the magazine, messages, posts, etc.
I just want to say thank you for allowing God to make you vessels unto honour. It’s really amazing to know that we young people aren’t alone, that there are people like you, who love us, who care about us and who would give anything to see us grow up and be like Jesus.
In these few years of knowing you, all I can say is GOD BLESS YOU TITIMI. Pastor Timi, you’ve been a great inspiration, as well as your wife, mummy Titi. Your rewards are not just in heaven, they are starting from now!!!
God bless MTM
God bless The Ark
IT’S YA SEASON!!!
I thank God for His faithfulness. He is using TiTiMi to touch so many lives. If I had not come across Bro Timi and his adorable wife, Sis Titi, I don’t know what kind of life I would be living. He used both of them to draw me closer to Him and ever since then, I have been the happiest person on earth cos God has been taking good care of me. Recently, my family experienced a shift from strife to peace. May God continue to bless TiTiMi abundantly. May your home be filled with peace, wealth, good health and happiness. As you are reaching out to teenagers worldwide, Almighty God will bless your children. THANKS A LOT. I LOVE YOU
I’ve seen many families,
But this one family,
Acts like the lily,
With a sweet,
Their words bring about transformation,
Their way of life is my earthly yardstick,
That measures my love for God,
Humility, their core value,
Purity, their way of life,
Integrity, their stand,
My self esteem,
Knows no low,
God Bless TITIMI!
I congratulate you for more blessings to come!
I first came across MINE Magazine in 2010. I have been blessed by your publications which I have diligently used to bless hundreds of teens in my circle of influence. May God continue to bless you. Happy birthday to a lovely couple.
Happy birthday to our Papa and Mama in the Lord. With great joy in my heart, I celebrate TiTiMi, my role models. My greatest joy is still the impact of love you show to me through MINE TM. I have seen pastors and mentors whom you can confide in but these persons are rare gems; they dont judge you by your past but love you with the love of Christ. Wishing you greater heights, more grace and overflow anointing.
Meeting Uncle Timi, made me let go of the past. I learnt forgiveness through him, and also to let God heal my aching heart. TiTiMi’s Union has taught me that success in marriage doesn’t only require you finding the right partner but also you being the right partner. Aunty Titi has taught me what love and acceptance means. I love TiTiMi and God bless you both.
Pastor Timi, my mentor and friend he has been and he still is. He is a legible symbol of love and compassion. He is a man of persistent faith, which I have seen him exhibit countless times. One of the things that amazes me about him is his diplomatic nature; his ability to pass his messages across, without having to attack your personality or erode your self esteem.
One of the things so peculiar about Mrs. Titi Adigun is her power of silence and ability to pass her messages across in a subtle and gentle way.
I am so joyous that we all are part of the same clique; GOD is using us to change the world.
Happy birthday Pastor Oluwatimilehin Adigun. You’ve indeed been a blessing to our world.
It’s funny how people admire godly people from a far and secretly…who does that? Hadassah Oye Asabi does. I admire you Pastor Timi Adigun, your home and what you do for the ministry. God bless you as you keep preparing God’s Bride for the coming of her Bridegroom (Jesus) . You keep telling and showing this generation that it is possible to live a holy and spiritual life in this messed up world. That all what the world is saying is impossible is possible through Him who is our strength. That we ain’t of this world so we need not strive to be accepted by it. We are different because we are from above. Love you and yours! Amen.
Hadassah Oye Asabi
TITIMI is a UNIQUE combo; a combo that could only be GOD-MADE! Integrity, passion (for God and people), love (in its entirety and truth), family values, dedication, commitment, life of worship, spirit of grace, and wisdom are things that this awesome couple has taught me!
An awesome, God-crazy man plus a woman of wisdom makes a God-Class couple, exactly what our world needs.
TITIMI, thank you for sharing your lives with me.
Aremo Olalekan Oluwatobi
It’s beautiful and a blessing for God to connect me with Daddy Timi at Abuja during “Digitest 2010”, and to reconnect us last year 24th May. He is someone I love so much, I admire his lifestyle and the great and mighty things God is doing in his life. God blessed him with the woman in Proverbs 31:10.
A capable wife
Full of wisdom
The pride of her husband and heroine to her children
And also mother of two great nations (KingDave/QueenEsther).
A Glorious Birthday celebration to Daddy/Mummy TiTiMi.
Kindness Confidence Micah
TIMILEHIN AND TITILLOPE ADIGUN (TITIMI) you have blessed me tremendously in words and in deeds. Individually, your words have pierced the deepest part of my heart.
As One, your actions have taught me so much. The greatest of all things I have learnt from you both is LOVE and GIVING. Until I met you two, I hadn’t seen selfless givers and yet lovers of all. GOD is LOVE and you two have been REFLECTORS of the love of God.
Life without TITIMI would be a little blurry here and there.
But life with you in it has brought clarity and assurance to so many things for me.
You’ve impacted my life all round and made me a better person.
TITIMI you have come to stay in my heart, have acquired a very special place in my life.
Thank you for strongly believing in me, even more than I often believe in me.
Thank you for encouraging me to go the extra Mile.
Thank you for being accommodative and always open to all, giving us listening ears and caring arms.
Thank you for living a life just like Christs; worth imitating
Thank you for taking me as daughter.
Having you both in my life as FATHER AND MOTHER, as FRIENDS, as MENTORS and as PASTORS, for me, is ALL SHADES OF BLESSINGS.
I LOVE TITIMI.
GOD BLESS TITIMI.
Funmilayo Elizabeth Adewusi
Their love and service to God and humanity was the first thing that drew me to them. They both showed me how to love and serve God selflessly, also to believe in marriage. TiTiMi Adigun, you are Gods personal blessing to me. God must have sent you before me to help direct my path. Thanks for being born and thanks for being married to each other. I love you!
Talking about how Titi and Timi Adigun have helped me. I met Pastor Timi Adigun first in 2010, then his wife I later met online. Both knowingly and unknowingly have blessed me. Uncle Timi taught me to love always, and believe always; he taught me to build a beautiful, interesting and solid relationship with God; he taught me to believe in myself. Sister Titi, a mother and mentor to many. For years, I’ve talked about her as the woman I want to be like. Though we’ve never met, she has taught me to be a giver, she taught me to be accommodating and humble. Maybe someone with a larger heart than these two exists but I haven’t heard of or met that person. They may not be the best people all round on the planet earth but they are blessings to generations, God’s amazing gifts to the world and indispensable champions of God’s kingdom. Congratulations TiTiMi. God will give you every place where you set your feet. I LOVE YOU BOTH!
I want to thank God in the life of TiTiMi, meeting and knowing them has been a GREAT asset to my life and family which we will never forget. A great mentor and role model who God blesses us with to initiate the movement and fight against premarital sex (NO SUM) in this perverse generation, even with great opposition. A selfless giver whom I cannot repay with all the kind hearted gestures his household has shown to us. God bless you sir.
I just want to thank God for creating both of you and I want to say a big thank you for taking up the call when it came. I would still be ever grateful to God for the MINE Dream Centre. I learnt a whole lot from there plus it served as a place of refuge for me when my school was on strike. I don’t have so many friends so I needed people around me and Dream Centre was where I got a lot of companionship.
And to my writings, I used to be very shy and never wanted people to see or read whatever I had written but today, its a big different story. We thank God for variety Thursday that gave me a platform.
And TiTiMi has been wonderful. Always dishing out words in season most especially Aunty Titi.
After my mum, she is the next person I know that knows everything going on in my life and our update moment is always fun.
Haaaaa I still cannot explain how Uncle Timi became my friend oo…it is well sha.
I have a lot to say jare but I will comment my reserve.
I love you TiTiMi so so much and I want to say a big happy birthday to you.
Im glad that our paths crossed! The huge turn around came in 2011 when I attended the first MINE forum at RCCG, Dominion Sanctuary. Ever since then, I can categorically say that TITIMI has been of tremendous blessing to me.
I celebrate you today TITIMI ADIGUN. I look forward to the beautiful future God has for the both of you.
I LOVE YOU BOTH.
“TITIMI” are angels to this generation of ours. They’ve really done a lot for me. Is it their love or prayers? I can’t start mentioning them all. I have always told myself that if others were to be like this couple, the earth would be a better place. Please TITIMI, don’t relent but keep the good work rolling, because there is a great reward for you both here on earth and in heaven. Thanks for being part of my life.
I Love You Both.
I am a Nigerian schooling in Canada. I have never met TiTiMi Adigun physically, but I must say I have been inspired by them. I got to know of MINE Ministry online. These characters attracted me with their stance for sexual purity. They encouraged me and facilitated my belief in its possibility.
From the little I know about TiTiMi, what I see prominently is “Purpose”. I am so inspired by their focus. Also the gentleness I can sense from them is healing. I can also see clearly, virtue; and I am also encouraged that no matter what anyone else does, I can be myself and what God wants me to be.
This couple has encouraged me in being different, and doing the right thing despite trends and general opinion. You are a rare couple, keep doing the right thing. You are role models, keep inspiring our generation.
Love, from a distance.
To a couple whose modesty and chastity is clothed in humility
Whose walk and work with and for God inspires me to love God more.
Displaying the values they teach, teaching the importance of a home;
Making me see the power of unity of different entities, managing their diversity and channeling their differences to being like Christ.
May your marriage blossom and flourish,
And forever be filled with joy. Amen.
Happy birthday to Timilehin and Titilope Adigun!!! To you who my life did not seem to have started until we met. To you who God used to save me lest I became teenage mother, to you whose royal smiles are stamped golden in my heart, to you I say many more fruitful years.
To you who countlessly have been the expression of God’s love to me, to you who is always quick to give, quick to love, quick to serve, quick to support, quick to forgive, quick to listen, quick to instruct in God’s way no matter how hard, to you for whose reason I cannot but love, I say long life in prosperity!
To Mum and Dad, great mentors who sacrifice their “lives” for the flock, to you who daily push us teenagers and youths to become giants we are, to you who is ever ready to listen to and keep secrets yet treating me like the righteousness of God that I am, to you who is always believing the best of everyone, believing in the power of one. To TiTiMi whose super mega sized heart has a mansion for everyone, I LOVE YOU TO THE MOON AND BACK!
I and generations yet to be known will forever be grateful to God for General TiTiMi; super active salt preserving our world today.
Happy birthday Mum and Dad!!!
Awe Grace Oluwaseun
To my loving sister, I must say that you are one of the great blessings I will keep thanking God for. I remember when I almost gave up on my search for a good job because things were just not working out as I expected and your call came in. Your words of love and encouragement dried up my tears that evening. I just want to use this medium to appreciate you for your selfless love, availability and continuous prayers.
To my dearest brother-in-law, thanks for making me realize how much God loves me, you may not understand but I do. Thank you for your continuous prayers.
I love TiTiMi Adigun so much and I pray that the Lord will bless you abundantly with EVERYTHING that you both desire, and may the pendulum of your lives be on the upward swing and together, by the grace of God, we shall reign with Christ in eternity.
Thank you for taking your time to read this. If TiTiMi Adigun has blessed you too, please feel free to both drop your comments on this post and share this post on your social media platforms too. Many thanks!
We celebrate those we love! Thats TRUE LOVE!
I love you and I celebrate you too!
Timi for TiTiMi.
“Thank you for talking about Virginity. I thought I was the only virgin left”. Those were the words of a 14-year old girl who needed someone to speak up on Virginity.
World Virginity Day (WVD) is an annual event, powered by MINE Teenage Ministry, a non-profit organization committed to Moulding, Inpsiring, Nuturing and Empowering Teenagers.
WVD holds every second Saturday in June. We held the first in 2011. This year, 2016, marks the 6th year. We have recorded huge successes in all the five previous campaigns.
Why is it called World Virginity Day not World Sexual Purity Day?
We believe in Sexual Purity and that’s the underlying message we are advocating but we have a BIGGER GOAL; restoring the value of VIRGINITY. We want to raise a generation of children, teenagers and youth that know it’s okay and normal to keep yourself until your wedding night.
Currently, we live in a world, where the media is telling the young chaps to “DO IT”. Please do a survey in your local schools and you’d discover that virgins are ashamed of their “status”. Their friends make them feel like weirdos or outcasts. It wasn’t like this in the beginning. We want virgins to know they are doing the right thing. We want to strengthen them by letting them know they are not alone.
What of those that have had sex already?
It’s unfortunate that has happened but we ask them to stay sexually pure hence. That it has happened before doesn’t mean it should continue. They can decide from RIGHT NOW to stay pure and God will honour them for it. In fact, we celebrate them more and their spouses too would, because it takes more strength to say NO after you’ve been there before.
What do we hope to achieve from WVD?
I am excited as I reveal this to you. We want to RAISE a new generation. Where in ten years, if you visit a secondary school and ask how many boys and girls are sexually active, no hand would come up. Because a new culture of Sexual Purity and Keeping Sex for Marriage would have become the new NORM.
So, this campaign is more for our unborn children, primary school children and other youngsters. We’re replacing a generation that is confused with a generation that would be better informed. We want them to see that it’s BEAUTIFUL to keep sex until marriage and stay sexually pure in the process.
Our acronym, which has become an internationally trending tag is NOSUM, No Sex Until Marriage. So, when you post things on social media, especially relating to this topic, please add #nosum
Titi and I (Coordinators of MINE Teenage Minsitry) were virgins on our wedding night. Please remember what I said earlier, this is not to spite those who have made mistakes but to both save and encourage the upcoming generation.
And guess what? Not all of us on this campaign are virgins. Some have done it, had sex, done abortions, are single mums, etc but we are taking to stand to both stay sexually pure and help the younger ones not to make the mistakes we made.
We desire to hold this year’s campaign at Expo Center, Eko Hotel, Lagos and broadcast live across ALL continents of the world.
One young boy or girl that would have become a rapist or sex addict, or would have contracted some STD, would see it and be “saved”. It’s all in the power of love. Please let’s come together and make a difference.
Thank you so much!
To be a part of this, please give your best.
Our estimated budget for this year is about N20million (twenty million naira). 1,000 of us giving N20,000 would settle it and we know some of us can even foot the bill singlehandedly. This is A WORTHY CAUSE.
It’s not about a religion, or political party, or gender or race. It’s about OUR FUTURE and the LIVES of our VULNERABLE CHILDREN.
Donations should please be forwarded to:
MINE Teenage Ministry
We are people of integrity. We would give a 100% detailed account of how much came in and how it was spent. Please partner with us. People have already started responding. It requires urgency, especially for booking down the venue.
Many thanks again for taking your time to read this.
God bless you and give you reasons to be glad you joined us!
We are on Day Twenty of our Love Series. It has been a beautiful experience so far and I want to thank you for being a part of it. Today, I would be taking another set of questions.
I’ve encountered a lot of heartbreaks. Now, it’s hard for me to love. My parents told me to bring home a husband to marry. How can I take someone I don’t love home? It’s so hard for me because anytime I want to engage in any relationship, the past always ring a bell. Please what can I do?
Thank you for this question. I totally feel your pain. The past is just one part of our lives that never ceases to go; it just keeps checking up on us without invitation. I am very sorry for the heartbreaks you’ve had. I wish you never went through them but you did. So what do we do next?
I would advise that you start your healing process in earnest. The first thing I would recommend you do about your “wounded heart” is that you hand it over to God. He has an amazing way of healing hearts. Try doing that. Just ask Him to heal your hurts.
And while at it, please rise above the pressure your family is putting on you. Because of the things you’ve experienced, I would advocate you spend at least three (3) months from now building up your emotions, stabilising them. Read books, attend seminars, learn skills, go out with friends. Just get your life into an healthy balance, preparing yourself to venture into love again. Free yourself and have some fun while learning new things. Talking personally to a counsellor also helps a lot.
With God’s help, and your emotional strength regained, I’m sure you’d be ready to give love another chance and very soon, the wedding bell would ring. I hope to get an invite.
Hello to everyone and especially to you, Doc. Is it compulsory for a lady to marry an educated person?
Hmmm…this question seems like a set up ☺. Is it compulsory? NO!!! Is it necessary? YES!!! Please reach me for a personal session on this as different answers apply to different cases. Asking you some questions might help me answer you better.
But generally, even if the person is not educated, the person needs to both desire and have plans to get educated, if you are to consider spending the rest of your life with the person. Education is not just for the certificate, education sharpens our minds and exposes us to a world of possibilities. I hope I answered you.
Please sir, I caught my girlfriend whom I intend getting married to cheating on me. I’m just confused if I should let her go or stay after her apology. But I still love her so much.
I talked about Love Is Forgiveness on Day 3 of this series. You said she has apologised. I believe you should forgive her. We all make mistakes. But please don’t just forgive, ask questions.
Find out what made her do it? When you understand her reasons, it would help you to know what you can do on your end, in love, to help her not do it again. Was she lonely? Was she ‘needy’? Just find out and deal with it from there.
Let me state clearly here that I believe sleeping with your boyfriend or girlfriend is wrong. Sex should be preserved for marriage. So, if the reason she gives makes it sound like if you don’t give it to her, she’d have to get it elsewhere (or vice-versa for ladies with their boyfriends), then I strongly recommend you quit that relationship.
Why? The person that cheats on you because he/she wants sex at the wrong time (before marriage), will cheat on you in marriage if you travel or are medically indisposed. But the one that can wait for you would most likely stay faithful to you after.
Thank you for reading again. I hope these answers are making a difference in your love lives. Tomorrow is another day to take your questions. Until then, please KEEP LIVING and KEEP LOVING!
I love you!
I want to say a big THANK YOU to you that you’ve decided to follow me in this life-changing series. Love has changed, and is still changing, my life. This is an attempt to share my life with you and share principles that I live by. I personally employ you to ensure you follow this series for the complete 29 days and please practice what you learn…and if you’re in any way inspired, please share with your loved ones and encourage them to follow my blog via email so the new posts land in their inbox by default.
Now to today’s Love Topic!
Have you ever lost a battle that you fought in love? Have you ever lost a loved one, that you truly loved, to another person? Has love become a taboo word in your heart and soul because of the occurrences of your past?
If the answer to any of the above stated questions is YES, then indulge me as I say that IT WASN’T LOVE! Please don’t stop reading now. When you lie on a doctor’s operating table and he cuts you up, it hurts, but you trust him enough to stay there until he finishes and sews you back up. Just take me as your love doctor and I want to fix the love “sickness” you have. I desire to see you smile from deep within again because you have embraced love in its fullness.
TRUE LOVE, the type you would be growing in knowledge of in these 29days on this blog, NEVER FAILS.
What does “NEVER FAILS” mean?
* It never grows old
* It never faces an obstacle it cannot overcome
* It wins over (captures/endears) EVERY SINGLE person it’s shown to.
* It never has a down side
* It is infallible
* It outlives death
* It transcends time and space
These seven (7) points are just the few I presently choose to mention. When you begin understanding and living out the love life, you’d experience these seven and many more yourself.
Please take this love series as an academic course. Take it personal. Be deliberate and intentional. It’s time for you to have that lasting love relationship you’ve always wanted. It’s high time your husband/wife came back home! It’s time for family (parent-children) reconciliation. It’s time to truly fall in love with the guy/lady of your dreams. It’s time for LOVE!
I would be stopping here now, to continue tomorrow. This is just an introduction. Please stick with me for this whole month of February 2016 and we’d be both glad you did. Don’t forget to follow this blog if you haven’t. Encourage loved ones to follow too and please share this post on the social media networks via the links below.
Your love life is about to be REVOLUTIONIZED!!!
Until we “see” again tomorrow. Keep living. Keep loving!
I love you!
Timi Adigun (Doctor Love)
I couldn’t help but post this. You have to read it and please make sure you read it until the end. You might just see nudity, sex and other “pretty lady” issues in a different light. I sure did! Apart from reblogs, this is my first time posting someone else’s write-up on my blog. That should tell you how much I love it. This was written by a dear friend of mine. Comments would be appreciated. Thanks. Here goes!
THE CURSE AND BURDEN OF THE MODERNized LADY
by Sodeinde Simeon Opeoluwa (Facebook)
How interesting it is that when one gives birth to a girl now, the parents begin to worry about how burdensome and meticulous raising her must be. Whereas long ago, parents were happy to have girls bcos d girls bore things that would later in future prove that they were brought up well by their parents, e.g virginity till wedding, excellence at wifehood and motherhood, respect for in-laws and friends, the ability to always come back to check on and take care of their old ones etc.
But now? The story is different. There is a legitimate alternative to almost eeevery single thing that we once considered valuable. Now we have divorce, cohabitation, disregard for virginity and all it entails, deliberate single parenting, abortion, career-driven womanhood, caution void dressing etc.
Recently, by doing only very flimsy research I was overdosed with terrible views and data and occurrences. A morally mindless country has always been the fore frontier and dictator of what must be acceptable especially to our girls and little boys in developing countries e.g Nigeria. Suddenly our black girls feel skinny is beautiful, the robust ones feel they were born handicap, the skinny ones feel blessed and at higher advantage, now “you look sexy girl” has become a compliment that many girls look forward to. Suddenly our little sisters are falling into low self esteem by simply gazing into beauty magazines. Suddenly teenage girls are bulimic and anorexic (having severe eating disorders) because they have been informed wrongly by the foreign media about standards of beauty. Keeping with the (confused) Kardashians is now the family show some must never miss(what happened to super story?).
Suddenly many of our girls feel they must have dated once or twice before they are 18, Must have kissed and probably had sex before 25, married or not. Suddenly a particular kind of pose is compulsory while taking a picture. Soap operas, and confused Disney programmes, animations and cartoons now portray parents as irrelevant factors when it comes to a teenager’s personal space, rebellion against parents is okay so far ur boyfriend loves you. They now portray teenagers as independent folks: children programmes are now centering around independence and autonomy, dating and adult business. Barbie doll and got talent underage dancers dress almost half naked and these foreign things are what our sisters and daughters sit all day watching. Hardly are there movies that capture totally, roles of the father, mother and children loving and submitting to one another. Suddenly some of our girls are ready to be announced as the “pregnant GIRLFRIEND ” or baby mama of one artiste or the other. And it is a news that is proudly broadcasted, shey óri wá pé shá (are we all alright mentally? )
No wonder some of our respected aunties are rushing to marry because they became pregnant, at least thank God some are still marrying and marrying men. Suddenly love is the magic that opens lady’s legs and not marriage anymore. Marriage has become an institution being redefined by confused people and anyone can get a divorce and be married 4times and still be celebrity role model. Now some see it as still okay “sha ” for a girl to be bi (bisexual).
I also thank God for Nigerian artistes who strive day & night using as much creativity as possible to put nudity and sexual deviance on our screen. Now it is commonplace and not a total abomination to see half naked dressed ladies at night going to parties: Now every dress must be tight and elastic so that our girls can wear and feel beautiful and accepted?! Wow. Dinner gowns now aim to make a girl look sexy. I don’t blame my Apostle friend that lambasted fellowships dat do dinner cos d girls wear same gown to faculty dinner and fellowship dinner alike.
When u give some of our Christian sisters materials to take to their different fashion designers to sew ushering or choir uniform. men…… !! D rest is history. I don’t blame them, I blame what they see everyday that dictates beauty to them. Gone are the days when lip gloss and powder were enough to make a girl feel fly about herself, but now, they place heavy demands on their income to have makeups. Makeup is not the problem, the idea that without it one is incomplete is d killer idea.
Foreign Reality shows and celebrity life styles (which are scripted anyway) have become rampant and widely accepted, even TV series and u hear morally sound Christians or Muslims say wow I love “Empire” but the gay sex scenes are disgusting to watch. Oooh so if u buy a drink and find dead rat inside, u will remove D rat and still take d drink?
Please if you see any confused lady, tell her how much the society needs her to be sane. A woman said “a liberated woman is one who has sex before marriage and finds a job after” what a statement of doom. Tell every lady that her exposed body doesn’t add up to letting us know of her beauty. Tell that girl that I, Old-Rugged, am is a Photoshop user and I know how magazine front cover and inside page models are severely photoshoped to increase their hair, smoothen belly flaps, extend necks, trim waists, reshape eye and mouth angles, push up bust etc. Please tell our ladies that if you are not comfortable with “knife point heels use wedged and if not use flat, honestly you will still live long if you dress comfortable.
Please turn off the TV for a while. Close the online beauty websites for a moment, tune off celebrity photographs and news for a time and don’t cage into extinction ur female genius, creativity and primary roles.
Who will model proper womanhood to our ladies, who will teach our girls and encourage them to be studious at school, who will show to them the importance of virginity till marriage with a man, who will ask them to add more clothes to cover their flesh and loosen up the extra tight clothes and that they are beautiful without cosmetic surgery. Also that celebrity appearance is not as perfect as portayed. Even some news broadcasts are staged. If I tagged u here it’s because I believe u can help.
Many thanks to everyone who has watched the video and passed comments and opinions across but I need more opinions. What is your take on sex before marriage? Please air your views as comments on this page. I sincerely want to know your take on the issue. And for those who found it difficult viewing the Virginity Video on this page, please download the video here:
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