I am FOREVER in love!

This would be a long read but I believe it would be worth your time.

The cutie whose face you can see in this picture is my daughter, Esther…and I love her for life!
For those who have seen her, she’s quite big for a four-year old. It’s ironic that she was very ‘fragile’ before (when she was sick at a younger age). Her size today is simply God’s grace and goodness 😀

Back to my gist. So, yesterday, when in church, she came to me and asked to be carried. I refused initially because we were having a prayer session and I didn’t want to have such a weight on me as I paced and prayed.
But her hands did not go down. She kept them raised and insisted I carried her. Giving in, I teased her a bit then carried her. I felt her weight all the way. I felt pain in my arms and in my back but my Esther felt no pain. She was snuggled up against my chest, head on my shoulder.

Precious minutes passed as I paced and prayed, carrying her, until she slept off. I then laid her down to continue her beauty sleep.
As I carried her and prayed, I meditated on the love of the Father for me.
The Father loves us more than we could ever love our children. Our love is still imperfect because we are humans but God’s love for us is PERFECT.

If a busy dad would carry his daughter at an inconvenient time, just to make her happy, why do you think your Heavenly Father isn’t carrying you in His arms RIGHT NOW?
If my daughter’s comfort is my joy, why do you think the Father doesn’t care about your comfort?
If I do all in my power to make my daughter have a good education and learn things I never did learn (like swimming 🙈), why do you think Romans 8:31-32 isn’t real? The Father will NEVER withhold any good thing from you.
Do you know why we often doubt the Father’s love? Because we view Him through the lenses of our earthly fathers who have failed us at some points. Or we perceive Him through the words of prejudiced or angry “men of God”
My brother/sister, The Father loves you! He showed the extent of His love in giving up His own Son, so He could have you.

YOU ARE NEVER ALONE. YOU ARE NEVER FORGOTTEN. YOU ARE NEVER UNLOVED!
YOU ARE ETERNALLY LOVED!

Tired of being on the same spot? 

Are you the enemy you’ve been praying against? 

Have you been on a spot for a long time? 

Have you been making little progress in spite of your hard work? 

Maybe something is missing. I shared a MAJOR KEY to BLESSINGS in my last upload on my Telegram channel. 

Be humble enough to seek the answers you need😁👌

Please click https://t.me/joinchat/AAAAAE_3ugEKKanZZEiBhQ to join the channel. 

The message is my last upload (43-minute audio). Cheers to your greatness!  The 17 days left in this year can still be full of blessings for you. But you need to POSITION yourself to be blessed. 

Happy Wedding Anniversary to us!

Happy 6th Wedding Anniversary to you, MY LOVE! @virtuousoak

If I could relive the past six years, I would change ONE THING:

I would be a BETTER MAN for and to you!

I LOVE YOU Hadassah, with everything that makes me Ifeoluwasimi.

GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU FOR ME!


Note: Relationship Sundays @thearkchurchng end today and I’d be asking God for a special Wedding Anniversary gift: to answer all marital/relationship prayer requests people bring to church today and I know He answers me.

Happy Birthday!

​THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have been replying messages on Whatsapp, Instagram, Facebook, SMS, and BBM for about five (5) hours now, trying VERY HARD to respond to EVERYBODY. 

But at this stage, I’m not sure I can catch up🙈🙈🙈

Thank you for all the love, prayers, songs, well wishes, gifts and more!

My own God, that I serve continually, BLESS YOU ALL in Jesus name, AMEN!

I bless you from my heart.


So, I apologize if I don’t get to reply your post or message or if I don’t pick your call. I AM SO SORRY. I really wanted to. But guess “we” are growing exponentially. GLORY TO JESUS!

Thank you dad and mum, Tunji and Sinmi Adigun for birthing me!

Thank you my love, Titilope Adigun for being the best.

Thank you friends and family. 

I LOVE YOU!!!

PS: The next, and only other, post I would upload today is so far my greatest gift from God today! Do you want to know what it is? 

Wait for it!!! 

Coming soon…

Choose Wisely!

​Do you know that when liberalists say:

“Don’t allow anyone dictate to you. You have a right to do what you want with your life. Stop listening to them!”

They are actually also ‘dictating’ to you. Only telling you to be rebellious. 

CHOOSE WISELY!

There’s always the need for INSTRUCTION, DIRECTION and CORRECTION from godly people who have gone ahead of you.

And if you won’t still listen,  READ YOUR BIBLE. At least you know God loves you and won’t derail you.

I love you!

Good morning. 

Thanks for following me…lol!

​Hi. Thanks for following my blog. It’s been a while I appreciated you for reading my posts on your feeds or emails and I apologise. Thanks for reading, that’s why I’m still writing. I appreciate you.

But in case you don’t know, I’m a man of many parts. I’m a writer,  blogger, singer, composer, mentor, coach, counsellor, pastor,  speaker, son, brother, friend,  father and husband to mention a few…lol

But most importantly, I’m a Christian, I love God and I’m grateful for His love.

One of the greatest tools God has used to shape me is WORSHIP and many people have caught that from me. Our church has moved to Lekki now but this is not about the church. Even if you have your own church, I want to ask that you try to attend at least one of our Wednesday worship meetings. Your life will be “lightened and brightened”. That’s a promise.

I love you and hope to see you.  When you come, please walk up to me at the end,  and tell me you came as a result of my blog post. You’d have made my day . 
Below is the social media publicity I did a few minutes back:
Evening of Worship has come to transcend Age, Gender or Social Status.
It’s a time of RAW PERSONAL Worship unlike what you might be used to.

It’s a time you hear God, you feel Him and you touch Him.

The giftings of the Holy Spirit are always at work in diverse ways.

It’s a place for couples to come together and worship. 

Bring your children, and worship.

Come with your boo and worship. 

Come thirsty. Come expectant. 

When last did you really WORSHIP, not just SING SONGS?


Our first EOW in Lekki holds tomorrow (Wednesday March 1st, 5:30pm-7:30pm) and we really want to see you around.

Just come have a taste. ONLY A TASTE. It can only be experienced not explained. God did not bring us closer to you by accident na…

Please DM for descriptions or message Pastor Titi @virtuousoak on 08024341167

We love you.

God loves you and is intentional about you!

Committed to Love!

​Made a way

Don’t know how but You did it

Made a way

Standing here not knowing how we’ll get through this test

But holding onto faith You know best

Nothing can catch You by surprise

You’ve got this figured out and You’re watching us now

But when it looks as if we can’t win

You wrap us in Your arm and step in

And everything we need You supply

You got this in control

And now we know that
You made a way

When our backs were against the wall

And it looked as if it was over

You made a way

And we’re standing here

Only because You made a way

You made a way


Now we’re here

Looking back on where we come from

Because of You and nothing we’ve done

To deserve the love and mercy You’ve shown

But Your grace was strong enough to pick us up
And You made a way

When our backs were against the wall

And it looked as if it was over

You made a way

And we’re standing here

Only because You made a way 
You move mountains

You cause walls to fall

With Your power

You perform miracles

There is nothing that’s impossible

And we’re standing here

Only because You made a way
Don’t know how but You did it

Made a way

Love And Sex

​Hey!  I was at an amazing church on Sunday and we talked a lot about Love. After the talk, a couple of questions were asked and I answered. Below are questions I couldn’t answer because of time constraint . I’d LOVE to have your opinions. Please post them as comments.
Love Don’t Cost A Thing

Questions and Answers (not addressed during the Talk Show)

Q1: How do you avoid marrying a man without fertility issues without having pre-marital sex?

A: This fear is from the pit of hell. The devil would cook up all possible fears and lies to make you have premarital sex. I heard a doctor once say that even some guys who have been fertile before go infertile at some point. So, what’s the proof that even if you discover he is fertile now, he would remain so. Is love about sex? Is marriage about children? Children are a gift, blessings that come with the package. Sex and fertility are not the main reason for a man and woman to become one.

The God who told us to honour Him in our bodies is not unrighteous to leave us in sorrow for honouring Him. I’m a living proof that God honours obedience.
Q2: To stop sex is not the issue, but which guy will want to date a girl who has been sexually active, without attempting to have sex with her? It’s very difficult.

A: I totally agree that it’s difficult. But let me state here that I’m referring to a couple (guy and lady) who have God at the center of their relationship. When you’re both keen on honouring God and yourselves, there’ll be no desire to “share out of the ‘National cake'” 

That your boy/girlfriend has been active before doesn’t mean you should taste your own. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with him or her? You’d have donkey years to enjoy the goodies of sex. Don’t spoil it now.
Q3: Sir, I love watching Porn Videos. I don’t have a girlfriend, but whenever I feel like getting off, I go outside and pay for sex. What can I do sir? I want to stop.

A: This is a very sincere question. Thanks for voicing out. First, I would advice you get a mentor or an accountability partner who is more spiritually mature than you and can walk with you. You need a hand or even more than one hand to walk with you on this road.

You’ve formed bad habits that you need to break. You need a total renewing (overhauling) of your mind and I cannot say all here. Please seek personal counsel with me or the nearest counsellor to you.

Q4: I have a boyfriend whom I love, and I know he loves me too. The problem is, he keeps cheating and he always begs me and says I am the one he loves. I still love him, is that love or lust?

A: Hah! You need to sit with that boyfriend and talk things over. If he is doing that in a relationship, what would he do when you get married to him.

Note: I believe every godly relationship should have marriage in view; it’s not trial and error. So, my responses to questions have the background mindset that you are working towards marrying the person.

So, I believe in forgiveness but I also believe in dealing with issues. He shouldn’t keep cheating on you without doing something to stop the bad habit. You both should submit yourself to a counsellor and let him/her school you on what love truly entails.

Left to me, you should break off that relationship if he can’t keep his pants up.
Q5: I know I am really pretty, so it’s very hard for me to know who really loves me.  Please how do I know who really loves me?

A: That’s a tough one. You can’t know by looking. You know by KNOWING. And how do you know? By cultivating friendship. Please don’t rush into a relationship. Get to know the person. If you discover the guy or lady is overly impatient and just wants the relationship to start, please be wary. Love is patient. 

So, I recommend to cultivate friendship and SHINE YOUR EYES in the friendship. You’d know who likes you for you and who likes you for your face/body. And that’s believing you will be praying also. Let God, who knows the heart of all men, reveal things to you. 
Q6: Thank you sir, you just ministered to me. I am the girl who was on fire in secondary school then. But I got carried away waiting for admission and its difficult finding my way back. I still need help.

A: My dear, I’m delighted God mentioned your case. Do you know what? God is waiting for you. He has missed you, He loves you and is not condemning you. Try and recollect the things you used to do in secondary school and go back to them. 

I would advice you get active in church too. Get surrounded with a company of believers that would fan your flame. I see you becoming all God intends you to be and I believe God will restore the lost years to you.
Q7: How do you know the right man for you, how important is communication in a relationship?

A: You know the right man by sensitivity to the Holy Spirit plus observation in the course of your friendship. 

Communication??? That’s the bedrock of any relationship. Without it, a relationship is DEAD. You need to communicate and communicate in a language you both understand  (remember what I discussed on the 5 love languages).
Q8: Is it right or wrong to kiss in a relationship?

A: There’s no right or wrong to kissing. I know some of my people are happy to see this. I didn’t kiss my wife until she was my wife because I understood my body makeup. I know couples who kissed and still made it safe. So, you get?

Kissing in itself is not the sin but what it could lead to is the issue. So, between you, God and your boo, decide what works for you. Just ensure you honour God in your bodies. 
Q9: How can you differentiate between Love and Obsession?

A: Lovely question. Love is defined in 1Corinthians 13, please read it. Whatever is outside of that like extreme possessiveness, extreme jealousy, extreme thinking/fantasizing etc are signs of obsession.
Q10: Is it bad to touch your boyfriend before marriage?

A: If it is the touch I believe you’re talking about, it is wrong. 
Q11: How important is age in a relationship?

A: This question always comes up. Age is important but it is not all so important. It also depends on family background and your perception of age. So, I can’t give a hard and fast answer. 

I know couples with the wife older than the husband and they are doing well. I know couples with the man ten years older than the wife and they are doing well. It’s so relative and depends on your own personality. 

The important thing is the man should love the woman and the woman should submit to the man.
Q12: If you love someone who doesn’t share the same faith with you, e.g Muslim is it wrong.

A: I believe it is wrong. You can have friends or colleagues of another faith but please not in marriage. I won’t say this for Christians alone but would say same to Muslims or those of other faiths. You need to marry someone who shares the same faith and spiritual values with you. 

Marriage is a lifetime commitment. So, you don’t want to be stuck for life with someone you can’t share your “rhemas” with, you can’t fast and pray with,  you can’t agree on the same thing in the presence of your children. In one house, the children would choose different faiths. That’s the definition of confusion. 

Many times, when you’re in love, you feel you can overlook it and manage but in reality,  it doesn’t work that way my dear.
Q13: I really want to settle down. All I am asking from God now is a man of my own but all the guys currently after me either want sex or want to touch. I don’t know what to do.

A: The right man hasn’t come yet. Don’t get pressured my dear. Most times, when you eventually give in to the pressure,  they’d still move on. Sex never keeps a man who will still walk out. 

There are many godly men who seek to do it God’s way. Keep praying, and believing. You’d soon meet each other. I have many testimonies in this line. Your case won’t be an exception. Don’t compromise. God is faithful. 

While you wait, enjoy your single-status and maximise your life. 

Note: Being in a relationship doesn’t bring the joy and satisfaction you fantasize it will. Having Jesus and living for Him is what does. Having a man or woman in your life just adds to the spice. But if you make it the major priority in your life, your hopes will be dashed.  Because NO HUMAN BEING can satisfy the longing in your heart. Only God can. So, don’t compromise for anybody. 
Q14: Thank you so much sir for your ministration. You said Love does not demand but gives. What happens if the guy demands from the girl all the time?

A: What is he demanding? No relationship should be parasitic. A guy who keeps demanding from you would remain self centered. You need to call his attention to it. If he doesn’t understand what you’re saying,  I would advise a break up. 

Love is more committed to giving than receiving. 
Q15: What if the babe likes sex a lot and I don’t know how to say no?

A: Bros, what if the babe has AIDS, would you say no? What if you knew for every time you sleep with her, your years on earth reduce by one? Would you continue? 

I guess not! We often justify our actions based on our desires. If you really want to do it right, it won’t matter whether she likes it or not. You’d work it out with her.

Better still, marry tomorrow, so you can keep giving it to her as often as she wants it. Please,  do what is right. God’s instructions are never to hurt us but to make out lives full and pleasant. 
Thank you for the questions. To reach me directly,  please follow me on Instagram @timiadigun and send me a direct message.

God bless you!

Let’s keep loving!!! Love don’t cost a thing, don’t let lust ruin the love you both share.

I love you!

Timi Adigun  (Doctor Love)

​Celebrating five years of LOVE!

I guess I’m a very emotional person and today brings back many memories that I would love to share, memories I am proud of. Please ensure you read all the way until you see my sign out:)
Today, Monday October 17th, 2016 makes it exactly five (5) years MINE Bible Study started. We started Monday, October 17th, 2011 at Yeshua High School. YHS has been a tremendous blessing to MINE TM. God bless YHS. And God bless the proprietress, my mother, Mrs. Sinmisola Adigun. I love you, mum. 😚

We started with about about ten  (10) people on that Monday evening and we have grown since then. Many of the State Coordinators we have, in Abeokuta, Ado-Ekiti, Akungba, Lagos, Ogbomoso, Jos, Benin, US, Ghana, and more were tutored in the Word at MINE Bible Study. God has RAISED giants in the Kingdom in the past five years. Halleluyah!

I remember telling my wife, four months into our marriage that we were going to start Bible Study, and my ever supportive wife said it was fine with her. I explained the vision to her and she caught the fire. She missed the initial days because of her schedule at work but she caught up on the gist. By the way, God used the book, “In the footsteps of a prophet”, by Jerry Savelle to start me on this journey. And here we are today.

Amazing testimonies have been shared over the years on the power of and in the Word of God. Many teenagers, young adults (some married now) have been literally TRANSFORMED by their time in BS. It has become a ‘seminary’ for some and a “family” to ALL.

Thousands have passed through MINE Bible Study across the world and are doing exploits in career, business, family and ministry. All praise to God! 

Do you know Toyo Baby is a product of MINE BS! God is raising Kingdom Giants!!!


The interesting thing about MINE BS is the love we enjoy. There were many times, that at the end of BS, envelopes were shared with cash in, ranging from N1k per person and above. Everybody present on those numerous occasions went home with money that would have made their families laugh and rejoice. EVERYONE! 

The sad truth is, no matter what you do, people would still criticise you. So, stop trying to please everyone. Do what you know is right before God and man!

One of the attendees told me that after she took her envelope (seed sown by ministry) home that her mother said it was “jazz”. We were using the money we gave out for diabolic things. Can you imagine that! Can’t people actually do things in this world for FREE without any ulterior motives? We just wanted to put smiles on faces o!!!

Back to the gist…and for the past five years, we have cooked and served food EVERY FRIDAY (our fasting day) to break our fast. By the way, BS was EVERY week day. We just excluded Wednesdays this year when Evening of Worship began. So, we cook Jollof Rice and meat every week. The welfare team freestyles and makes beans sometimes to the delight of the guys… lol But everybody goes home fed.

When The Ark started in 2012, we decided every Sunday would be feeding day too. So, we feed every Sunday at The Ark. So, that’s cooking and feeding twice a week. I’ve been challenged by some people on this but I ask myself, What Would Jesus Do?

I KNOW, I’m not guessing or postulating, I KNOW that many families go back home after Sunday services in their churches to an empty house and no food, after probably giving their last kobo as offering! Why am I so sure of this? I and my wife have been there. No food at home, yet giving our best in church. What if we were guaranteed a good meal and a free ride by a “wealthy couple” in church.

And in that same congregation, where members are hungry, are people with billions in their accounts who are recognised in church because of their big tithe. The world may honour the wealthy and give special places to them but that shouldn’t be so in the church of Jesus na!!!

So, we decided that every body who comes on Friday and Sunday would be GUARANTEED a good and healthy meal. This was not a publicity stunt but from hearts that understood pain.

The early church wasn’t building edifices at the expense of the Word and Lives. NO!!! Many church buildings in some countries have been sold to clubs and gambling houses after bankruptcy. What if they had invested more in lives. What if???

We, in MINE TM, follow the early church’s foundation of being given to “The Word and Prayer” and “No one had need”.

We study the word, we fast, we pray, we feed, we love on each other. We don’t compete with each other or brag about our latest acquisitions. That’s not the church Jesus died for! That’s a “show house”.

All we do in BS, is just one part o, World Virginity Day is there, same as MINE Magazine, MINE Forums across Nigeria , MINE Charity Outreach, BALL, The MEET, and more! 

I hope you don’t see this as bragging but if you do, I can’t help that. We have been called to LOVE. Let’s look away from ourselves. You’re so concerned about your children  alone. Why not also help other children and allow God honour your sacrifices by taking care of your children in ways you can never do as a human. Can you stop your child from being sick or having an accident or getting addicted? But God can! Sow seeds into the lives of others! 

Today, as MINE BS celebrates five years of the Word and of Love, I ask that you please pray for us as God keeps using us to raise a new generation.

If you’re reading this and you’ve ever attended BS, please do me two favours:

1. Please share this post (buttons beneath the post)

2. Please post a comment beneath on how God has blessed you through BS. All the glory goes to Him.

If you’re reading and have never attended, you could join us any day you’re free, weekdays (except Wednesdays) at 4pm. Presently at 11, Baale street, off Adebowale street, Ojodu, Lagos. You could also join us for Evening of Worship on Wednesdays at 5:30pm.

Finally, I ask as we celebrate five (5) years of impacting lives, spiritually emotionally and physically, that you please give your best gift, sow your best seed to support this ministry.

Account details:

GTBANK. Mine Teenage Ministry. 0106771340

If you want to keep in touch with MINE TM, please follow us on social media.

Facebook: Mine Teenage Ministry

Twitter and Instagram: @mineministry

For general enquiries,  please call the National Coordinator, my love 😍😙, her name is Titi, on 08024341167. 

Please don’t just sit back and watch us from afar (like many people say and do). Let us know you’re there. Please stand with us, uphold us, give, pray, and partner with this Kingdom work.

And in your personal pursuits, no matter how seemingly difficult your dreams and visions are, please stick with them. You will achieve them!

Thanks for reading. Please feel free to check other posts on my blog. They are for you. Like the post on the girl that called me an Idiot. To read that, please click here.

I love you! 

Doctor Love.