I want to share something with you that most men might not be bold enough to confess. It is a man problem. Wait please! It might be a woman problem too but I am a man so I can only describe from my own perspective!
Has a married man ever told you (a single girl) that your body is the best he has ever seen or touched? He’s lying. He most likely has told several girls the same. Is your boyfriend presently telling you that he needs a quick fix and it’s only your body that can do the job. Another lie!
For guys, we’ve always heard that “A man is moved by what he sees”. I beg to disagree. He is not really moved by what he sees but by what he thinks. It’s all in the mind.
I served (NYSC) in Calabar and I saw a couple of mad people. There was this young girl in particular and she was almost always naked and I can assure you, I was not in anyway moved. That wouldn’t have been the case if I bumped into a sane woman at an unguarded time.
Men are moved by their thoughts. A man who feeds on the WORD of GOD will find it difficult to go a-lusting. A man who feeds on porn or lewd music/videos cannot be better than the quality of his media intake.
For every girl or woman that has been hurt by a sweet talking man, I am sorry. May God comfort and strengthen you. It was never about you, it was always about satisfying the urge in his body that originated from his mind. If you were not there, he would have done it with someone else. Don’t feel special because it’s you he’s cheating on his wife with or it’s you, among the many girls, he wants to be with!
Sex is still exclusively for married people. What people say about it doesn’t change the TRUTH. God loves you and wants to save you from unnecessary hurts.
So, men, please let’s GUARD OUR HEARTS!!!
Women, please DON’T BE CARRIED AWAY!
This might have come a little hard and I am sorry but please LET THE TRUTH SET US FREE!
I love you!